Shizong Zhuang marriage can be divided into a tradition propose marriage, engagement, then pro, send pro, get married, back doors, and other wedding process.
(A) on the pro: first need to hire eloquent, articulate married men and women (not divorced, not dead a spouse, no children died) two. Matchmaker raised by two parents with two packets of brown sugar, two bottles of wine to the woman home Yueqin. If you do not know of the man the woman's home, the excuse did not ask the girl, family, or your man blind date led to a matchmaker met again, in order to gain time. If you already understand the situation of the man, but did not agree to this marriage, to politely refused: "My girl was very young, three to five years not talking about marriage, please do not come a matchmaker." Already know and like the man said, "my stupid girl , neither of textile fabrics, not embroidered brocade, married in the past, you joke, do not deserve to be your daughter home, "and so self-deprecating words, this gift will accept. And Huotang Bian fried beans, peanuts and other foods warm hospitality matchmaker, that there is hope for this marriage.
(B) of the engagement: first be employed by a matchmaker with a pair of chicken, wine, meat, rice of all four, five kilograms, will be around 20 yuan wedding money to the women at home engagement. In recent years, gift, gift money doubled.
Then, the man sent the woman home to do two banquet tables, the woman's family in your uncles, aunts and grandmother, grandfather, uncle, aunt, etc. to eat Engagement wine, two of the marital relationship will be finalized.
Engagement after a few days, eat the small wine, the man to prepare a pig (no less than 50 kg), alcohol 20 kg, two pairs of chicken, rice 10 kg, and ending with six hundred dollars or tens of dollars per month (to be economic conditions to see the man and the woman required). Li Qian ending with six, the "Gods Jubilee" was intended to show auspicious. Four to six by the man who brought gifts to the woman home with the go-between to do with five, square table in the family of the woman's parents dinner banquet. This is called the Zhuang people eat wine.
Long Qing Zhuang Township - black sand clan called the "root fishing old", meaning to eat great wine. Take a seat before, to the woman by the future son-in home lighting with table, offer joss sticks, kowtow, offering world, ancestors were. Banquet was sumptuous and generous to do, not neglect the guests, the woman is responsible only for cooking and vegetarian. If the wine and meat is not enough, the guests made fun of "rope tie-law", so embarrassed. Banquet room, to ask the woman to sing drinking songs such as aunt, bless the marriage auspicious, happy. And requested the "hold Mount" demolition beheaded, feet, such as Gua was lucky, that is jubilant, full of praise. That day, the man to prepare eight chickens, eight bottles of wine a formal discussion to the woman the girl's birthday horoscopes (Zhuang folk: women giving birth three days to request the "hold Mount" will be converted into attribution birthday, written in red and green cloth from the Parents collection), the woman will be the girl's birthday horoscopes on red paper and then copied to the man, during which the bride price and marry the agreed date, the specific date Please "hold Mount" fix a notice women at home, so that preparations for the woman a dowry. Zhuang traditional dowry has since woven blue mosquito nets, a single lattice pad, quilt, red lacquered wooden cabinet, wooden and silver jewelry. Eaten a small drink, and attempt to intervene on both men and women have certain third-party binding even if the man take the initiative to break off an engagement, the woman who do not want to retire, the bride price rebate; if the woman who take the initiative to break off an engagement, all the bride price to the man restitution If the third party will be led away the girl to run away to a third party to double compensation.
(C) of the next of kin: the day before the wedding, the man should lose a little wine, get ready when the bride price agreed upon - pork attack, eighty kilograms, liquor forty to fifty kilograms, more than fifty kilograms 饵块, currency 200, to the woman home, led by a matchmaker on the costumes, hand and crisp meat and other objects of the pretty girl next of kin to the woman home. The woman's home to ask the bride's aunt, aunt to the next of kin are toast, then parents are drinking, those who give the toast, "milk money", money is also ending with six.
(D) to send the pro: pro need to accompany your mother to send a pair. Accompany the mother's condition and the brothers and sisters look more beautiful, if not married to divorced, not pregnant. The bride's companions to pick good singers. Better to send new people to participate, usually 8 - 10. The bride dress according to the different branches are different, Wulong, high white sand good family, the bride wore a blue dress the color indigo, etc., wearing jewelry such as earrings, necklaces, bracelets, they were all silver-white; family of the bride is wearing a black sand the value of silver inlaid with over four hundred yuan's coat, pleated skirt Department, Jianpi silver waistcoat. Mother also need to accompany the same with the bride dress. The bride does not cry out, cry out to life suffer.
Every bride across the road to send a pro-Erdaogou, each over a bridge, sending loved ones who have to discuss the next of kin "to go in the money." Long home to a new but also "door money", the amount of money will do some sort of angle, but still ending with six. To "walking money" and "door money", the bride and groom's married life like a bridge over ditch, the door as well.
(E) get married: first wedding Shizong Zhuang choose auspicious days, one Jishi Liang Chen, suona Unison, firecrackers. Decorated groom, wedding couplets covered porch, covered halls of the Hershey family and friends off color right, cigarettes filled, full house guests, the bride accompanied by the accompany your mother, a docking pro-Xiaoya (girls) leading the way, sending eight to or pro- Xiaoya crowd in ten pairs of the groom's family, into the door, put guns welcome the groom and the bride a hoe, a hoist to get into the new house. A hoe that hard to get rich, gourd blessings that Paul, grow old together. Preparing for the wedding day into the bridal chamber, but not with the wedding the bride and groom three nights in the same room, from the accompany, to send pro-girl and the bride the same room fellows.
When the bride after the door, sending loved ones to the bride's dowry dowry eleven exhibit, in the presence of relatives and friends of the surface points, and even have scales scales dowry box to the house were wealthy women, the bride's exquisite craftsmanship. After lunch, the man's left arm hanging to the groom after the pro-red, the woman's parents to the groom after the red right arm hanging. When hanging red "hold Mount" for the men and women, respectively, after the pro-HE Good side: "Today Hi Red, living in harmony for generations, and their offspring children and grandchildren, in particular with the Flow. A foot long and a long red hi, today brought the groom tied, wrapped around the left three Takako reincarnation, right champion Lang tied to switch. "
Baitang noon the next day. Incense smoke for the table, the room gracefully four tables banquet hall, pro-family, pro-seated after the table. Accompany Lang, to accompany the bride and groom costumes, Mother accompanied with prostration, from "hold friction," cried ceremony, before preparing for the wedding, Zao Jun, ancestral tablets, after the weddings both men and women on the parents after the parents and relatives. "Hold Mount" ceremony words to the effect that: "On this auspicious day good feast, complains struck, musical instruments, musical, almost a full house, Bling his door, likes to watch the world Yuyan arranged in pairs, a couple Huatang worship, earnest prayer after the pro- mercy, blessed gift letters. "after the pro-Zeng Yan:" Today Baitang, Forever and Ever, a sun and moon worship triphosgene, two worship of gold, three thanks to bumper grain harvest, cattle and sheep at least four stable thanks to the five generations of descendants of Corrections and a prayer, thanks to booming domestic animals six, seven sisters wedding thanks to seven or eight worship Eight Immortals, thanks to nine Xuannv nine, ten generations of sub-Sun Fugui Rongchang worship. "Baitang, each row thanks to a ceremony to be Sanguijiukou gift.
Baitang complete, guests take a seat, the new Lang Lang to accompany your mother to accompany the bride, accompanied by one by one back pro, pro-family toast, the first King syrup, King after the wedding. Pro-family and guests to the bride and groom gift to send money, usually 5 - 10 million, after the bride's gift of money to return home from the bride.
(F) back door: the third day of the wedding, the bride to get up early to pick well water into the tank in the kitchen, office table for, please close the family, village and old, chefs take a seat, leading the bride to send loved ones said to the seated guests eleven toast thanks. In addition, the mother to the bride to bring Baba, flaky meat and other items sent to family back home parent, after the home.
(G) marriage rituals: Before the liberation, married popular Zhuang woman "do not take home" the habit, that is, the third day back to her parents after marriage, just busy at home, festivals, by the mother or her husband's brothers and sisters back to the husband's family lived on. After the busy back to her family. Marriage, the groom is still a small bed to sleep before marriage, the bride home to his wife to bed a few days, the wife to her parents, her husband from time to time to visit with a gift to the Yue Mujia wife, living on one or two places, no intercourse with the wife of vulgar. Pregnant woman to wait until after the man who lives only to go back.
After the liberation, especially in recent years, the bride "does not sit at home," the custom gradually reduced. Some places have get rid of "do not take home" practices.
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